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The works of Life..

 Life isn't a script played out in ones head by mere painting of a mental picture of the progression curves based on aspirations and anticipation. If you would ask me,I will only relegate such perception to wishful thinking of wishes being horses and beggars ridding. The story of life will confine your reasoning to the fear of the unknown where those who dares the odds rules today. Whereas yesterday and failure only transcends as lessons and experiences. Life always favor those who are willing to take risks outside their comfort zone for a push forward. It frowns at mediocrity but smile at those who take the bull by the horn. Do well to come down from your high horse to understand the language of life.

RECOURSE

We can only learn from our past so we need to put our attention on what we do now. Since you’re reading this article, it’s a step in the right direction. It’s all good to have a vision and a plan of getting there, but the steps you make now will lead you to the goal or away from it. Aim to make good use of any opportunity that you get on any given day because it may not come around again.  Do not wait for inspiration but instead, you must seek it and you will surely find it. There’s a well-known saying by Mike Tyson – “Everybody has a plan until they get punched in the face“. This is when reality sinks in and you have to deal with the present situation. There’s no doubt there are times when nothing goes according to plan and you just feel like giving up. These times are the most crucial points in your life and the decision you make will affect you for the rest of your life. Fortitude is what will ultimately make you as a person and is what all great people are capable of, no matter...

Women and the Value

 Value is an important concept which if not properly understood abuse is inevitable. The value we place on things determine how we relate or handle them. A good example is the way one will handle a diamond ring in comparison to a Silver ring. I need not say that the diamond ring will be treated with special attention. Thus,suffice to say value is determined by  the worth attached to an object or person. This implies some people see themselves as worthing nothing while some see themselves as cooper or gold. Gold is Gold just as Copper is Copper, Copper can't be turned into Gold. The above instance can also be likened to how men see or treat women. But the questions is who determines the value? The woman in question is the major determinant of her value. A friend was relating how much he spent to fulfill the marriage rites before marrying his wife. In his words,he said "if this marriage requirements are so thorough and expensive,why then are some ladies selling themselves cheap ...

THE GIFT FREELY GIVEN

There is a a gift we often take for granted and see as our right. Some people go as far as starting their day and  living their lives like the world revolves around them, mind clouded with  expectations of how things should go as planned. They speak of  tomorrow or the future like that is  all needed to scale through to the aspiring future.  No apologies for being religious but after God created man, one action brought man into being which I call the gift (breath of life). God breathed life into man and alas man came alive and all every other thing was set in motion. Lets pause here and think of all what man did after the gift was freely handed to him. Did man ever thought of the origin of this gift before disobeying? That is exactly the nature of man, forgetful and occupied with our ambition and desires without any thought of what happens when this gift is taken away from us.  I don't know who is reading this but please take note that without this gift, we...

HYPOCRISY OF THE SOCIETY

                                    The society lives and thrives in utopian illusion of things presumably perfect and in place. A good example is what runs throw the mind of two people coming in opposite direction attempting to cross a narrow path but still end up in collusion. funny isn't it, the truth is the threat was identified but the danger wasn't avoided.  The word "benefit of doubt" has put so many people in trouble because one always has to be ready for eventualities. However, the society tend to  picture a scenario with an expected outcome before it unfolds. I beg to borrow the word of ASA  from one her song titled "Society" which says "one man's truth is another man's lie". This is indeed a deep statement which tells how twisted truth and lie could mean to different people. lies now parade the society as truth while truth is ashamed because it is either bitter or naked....

FALSE PERSONALITY

 Don't treat me less of a human Looking for every opportunity to make a mess of me You smile to the media and world like a human Yet the truth of your monstrous side remains hidden The onus on you is to protect  But the guns turned against the people you ought to protect In the midst of all these are severe security challenges Your might is only rekindled when you see harmless citizens One day you shall meet your match with no room for escape.

AGAINST ALL ODDS

 What do you do when you fail? Go back to the drawing board to research on how to be better or simply just give up. Please allow me to use the academic means of assessment in the university as an analogy to the journey of life. All the student got admitted into School regardless their background or foundations,they are exposed to the same lectures and lecturers under the same learning circumstances and condition.  However, during exams some students are graded A, some B while another set C till we get to P and F. My emphasis is on the student with 'F' which stands for Fail. How  did the student who left his parent to study for a degree in an academic environment end up with 'F'? It is okay to get grade 'F' at school but the main issue is how do you take it. Allow me to add here that it is okay to fail in life but what do you do about it? Some people may counter my position with the view that corruption in the country is  part of the reason for their failure. ...